Questions and Answers

Etiquette


First Contact

Begin with an introduction


The booking form is the most direct way to reach me, but you're welcome to write directly to missvioletleexo@proton.me. The first message shall include your name, the date and hours you have in mind, and a few lines of introduction — screening details can follow in the same message or a second one.

Screening

Discretion


Before we meet, I'll ask for one of three things: a selfie of you holding your unaltered government-issued ID, at least one provider reference, and either a LinkedIn profile or employment verification through your work email.

What you share with me stays with me, your privacy is of the utmost importance to me, and I expect it in return.

In the interest in the ongoing health of our commmunity, you consent to regular STI testing, verification of which may be required upon request.

Confirming

A held place


The booking is confirmed by a deposit — the amount scales with the length of the date. Interac e-transfer, giftcard, BTC, wire transfer, OnlyFans tips, and Throne, are all accepted for deposits — please note Throne and OnlyFans are USD and you will be responsible for processing fees. The remainder should be in plain sight at the start of our time together: tucked into an envelope, a book you've enjoyed, or a gift bag if we're meeting in public, within our first five minutes.

If plans shift, please give me at least 24 hours notice — cancellations within 24 hours will require the full consideration. Deposits are transferable to a future date, within six months.

Outcalls

Where I'll come to you


Outcalls are welcomed at private residences and AirBnBs. Hotels such as St. Regis, Ritz-Carlton, Hazleton, Shangri-La, or the Four Seasons are preferred otherwise. Outcall bookings carry a travel fee of $100. For dates of three hours or longer, please plan a little social time around the meeting itself — a drink, a walk, a meal, an activity.

On Our Meeting

How I like to be met


A few small things that make the evening feel effortless. Arriving on time. A shower and fresh breath on arrival is the small kindness that makes the evening seamless. Phones stay closed, and the world stays outside the room.

What we share stays between us. The evenings I remember best are the ones spent in mutual ease — with attention flowing in both directions, and nothing forced.

Evenings I Like

What you might plan


I'm a companion who genuinely values connection — I adore extended days and evenings — but I love being spontaneous too. A few places and pastimes I'm drawn to, in case you're looking for somewhere to begin.

Food and drink

Prime Seafood Palace, Edulis, 20 Victoria, Nobu, Mhel, Scaramouche, Sammarco, Shinji, Bar Isabel, Aburi Hana, Jacob's, Linny's, Alo, Giulia.

Activities

A spa afternoon (my absolute favourite); an afternoon of shopping; yoga, pilates, a workout class or weightlifting; the beach, a hike, a run, a romantic stroll; art galleries and museums; sound healing; coffee and matcha dates; TIFF; live shows, music, and comedy; days on the water; a Jays, Leafs, or Raptors game; Netflix and chill, and slumber parties are my favourite.

Dream Destinations

Japan, Coastal Italy, Thailand, Vietnam, south of France, the Caribbean, Portugal, Australia, New Zealand.

Gifts

Always remembered


Gifts are always remembered — and if you find yourself wanting to bring something, I keep wishlists at luxylist.it/violetlee_xoxo and throne.com/violetleeto. Giftcards are also lovely: Fleur du Mal, Bordelle, Agent Provacateur, Shangri-La Spa, Are You Am I, Sephora, Amazon Canada, or Uber. They can be sent to my discrete email, that will be provided.

References

A word in confidence


I’m happy to provide a companion reference following our time together. As a professional courtesy, I offer one reference within 12 months of our date upon request.

Should you require additional references, a small token of appreciation, such as a gift card, or gift on my wishlist, is kindly requested for each additional reference.

If you would like to use me as a reference, please contact me directly beforehand to request permission and let me know which provider will be reaching out. This ensures I’m expecting her correspondence and can respond appropriately and discreetly.

Now you know how I thrive.

Violet

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